Wednesday, October 30, 2019

Hot Topics Part 1: Doubting the Character of God




Hot Topics are topics that can be controversial or avoided. They maybe questions we have in our hearts, but we don’t bring up often. They are topics that our culture says one thing about and the Bible says another thing. This series is about approaching some of these types of topics and looking to see what God says about them in His Word and how we can change to be more like Christ.

I passed out a survey several weeks ago and asked for hot topics from the students. Some wrote down a topic, others wrote down a series of questions. As I looked through the list of questions, I categorized into these 4 topics: Doubts about God, Mental Health, Cultural Engagement, and Q & A.  
Tonight, I want to answer the questions that fit the category, Doubting the Character of God.

The Reality of Doubt
John Calvin once wrote, “all true faith has a mixture of doubt.” Doubt is that subtle questions that begin to stir deep inside of us. It is the feeling of uncertainty whether something is true or not, or even possible. Doubts attack the things we hold most dear to us and disrupt the peace that we have with God. One author called going through a season of doubts, the dark night of the soul.

It’s important to remember that all doubts start from faith in something. Doubting is not a denial of faith, that is disbelief. Doubts are questions that we can choose to ignore or push away, but that will lead to greater problems later. It’s easy to feel ashamed of doubts, thinking there is something wrong with you or that maybe you’re not really a Christian. I want you to know that doubting is a normal part of the Christian life. When we doubt, it is important to talk to someone about them in a safe environment that we can walk through the season together.

That is my hope in youth group, is to cultivate a place where you can admit your doubts and we can learn together how God’s Word can lead us to the truth. This is why I have a series like this, so we can explore the thoughts and concerns that are weighing heavy on your hearts right now.

The Revelation of God:
When we come to these questions, we are asking questions about the Christian God who has been revealed to us through the Bible. Our starting point will be to go back to the Bible and see what has been revealed to us about God by God. The Bible is our source of information about God because it is a divine book that came to us through the power of God.

The Bible, or Holy Scriptures, is not a book, but it is a collection of 66 books. These books were written by over 40 different authors, most of whom never met each other, on 3 different continents (Africa, Asia, and Europe), in 3 different languages (Hebrew, Aramaic, and Greek) over a span of 1,600 years. They write of many important topics without disagreement, and ultimately point us to God’s redeeming plan in Jesus Christ (2 Timothy 3:16-17).

Knowing this about the Bible, we see that it is unlike any other book or collections of books in history. The Bible is God’s self-disclosure for our benefit. A few things we see is that God is our Creator God (Genesis 1), our Heavenly Father (Matthew 6:9; 5:16), the Righteous Judge (Psalm 50:6), and the Redeeming God (Galatians 4:4-5).

The Nature of Faith
As we read these truths, we come to a place where we have to decide whether we are going to believe God and His Word or not. Faith is placing our belief and trust in God. Some like to portray it as a blind leap of faith, hoping that you are right. But the Bible presents it as an evidentiary faith. Christian faith is a faith that is based on the God revealed in nature and in the Scriptures, which carry the historical interactions God has had with His people and His redemption story.

Faith comes from listening to the message of God (Romans 10:17) and believing that God is who He says He is, that He has done what He claimed to do, and that He will do what He promises to do (Romans 10:9-10). This saving faith acknowledges God as God (Hebrews 11:6) and choose to believe God above all else (Romans 3:4). This faith chooses to put God’s Word first and hold fast to His promises.

We have the promise of God that when we study His Word and honestly seek the truth, we will know the truth (Matthew 5:6; 7:7). So let’s look with eyes of faith at what the Word of God says about God.

The Trinity
God is revealed to us as a Triune Godhead (the Trinity) in the Scriptures, although we never see the term Trinity in the Bible. The Triune God is the Father, Son and Holy Spirit (Matthew 28:19). This revelation shows us that God is three persons, yet one essence. It’s a teaching that is hard for us to fully understand and all of our illustrations fall short. For me, the doctrine of the Trinity fundamentally reminds me that God is God and I am not (Deut 29:29).

Does God have a Gender?
God is revealed to us throughout the Scriptures as Father and the Bible uses the masculine pronouns He and Him in reference to God. Does this mean that God is a male? As we understand it, gender is tied to biological bodies, and since God is not a body but is a spirit, our gender classifications don’t apply to Him. Yet, because He is the Creator, He is the one who set the genders of His creation and initiated the use of the masculine pronouns to refer to Him for a purpose. It’s important to use biblical language when referring to God, such as, God is our Father and He has a plan for our lives. (The Son of God did become flesh and Jesus is a male)

Can God Sin?
No, God cannot sin. God cannot do anything that would go against His own nature and character. The Bible teaches us that He cannot lie (Hebrews 6:18; Titus 1:2) and that He cannot be tempted nor tempts others with evil (James 1:13), but He will always remain faithful (2 Timothy 2:13).

What about when it says, God is a jealous God? Isn’t jealousy a sin? (Exodus 20:5; 34:14)

Paul does list jealousy in his list of sins (Galatians 5:19-21). And James talks about jealousy with selfish ambitions exit, disorder and evil practices will prevail (James 3:16). How do we then reconcile that God cannot sin and yet He admits He is a jealous God?

It’s important to check out the context of words that we use. Our typical use of the word jealousy is in the negative sense, when someone is envious of another person’s possessions or relationships. But can jealousy ever be good?

In 2 Corinthians 11:2, Paul says he has a divine jealousy for the believers in Corinth to be pure in the union with Christ. He uses the word jealousy for an ardent desire for the good of others, because he led them to Christ and desires them to grow.

We see then that the context will determine what is good jealousy and bad jealousy. John Piper gives us a definition of each that I think is helpful:

I would define “bad jealousy” as jealousy that is rooted in fear and insecurity and lack of trust in God’s promises.

My definition of “good jealousy” is a joyful desire to receive the affections from another person that really belong to you, or an appropriate indignation if the affections that belong to you are not being given to you.

Bad jealousy is focused on what isn’t theirs based on insecurity of lack of trust. This isn’t the kind of jealousy God has.

The jealousy of God then is God’s desire for His creation to joyfully relate to Him because we were created by Him and for Him. He knows that we will only find true meaning, purpose and joy in this life by knowing and following Him. Ultimately, His jealousy toward us is for our greatest good and not harm.

Can God be angry and not sin?

Anger is not sin, but watch out, because it can lead to sin. Ephesians 4:26 says to be angry and do not sin. So, we can be angry without sinning. I would caution you to be suspicious of your own anger. James 1:20 says man’s anger does not produce the righteousness of God. We are sinners and sin corrupts every emotion we have, that doesn’t mean that all of our emotions are bad, but we need to check our hearts and our emotions against God’s Word.

God, however, is free to experience the fullness of emotions without the tainting that sin brings. This means that every expression of God’s anger is also balanced with His love and compassion. He isn’t insecure, power hungry, or vengeful. Unlike man’s anger, God’s expression of anger does lead to His righteousness being revealed.

In these short points about God, we see that the Creator God has revealed who He is and what He is doing in the pages of the Bible. In the Bible, we learn that God is the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, a spiritual being who cannot sin or He would cease to be God.

A few practical steps to take when you find yourself doubting: (Adapted from Mike Emlet)

1.     Doubt your doubts – don’t give your doubts more credibility than you give the Bible. Allow the doubts to lead to conversation, but be skeptical of your own thinking. Remember, there is a real enemy who wants to destroy you (John 10:10) and his very first tactic was to cause Eve to doubt God’s Word (Genesis 3:1).
2.     Learn to live with ambiguity/uncertainty
a.      Living by faith = entrusting yourself to God rather than living by the “sight” of your own certainty
b.     Basically, you need to remind yourself that you are not God and there are somethings you will never understand.
c.     Be patient, some doubts will take time and hard work, but in persevering you will grow and be better off because of it.
3.     “Look up”

a.     Focus on the objective actions and character of God in Scripture
b.     It’s not the strength of faith but the direction of faith that is important
c.     Engage with God—turn to Jesus today

d.     Look for creation-based markers of God’s love 


Applying some or all of these steps will help you process your doubts. Doubts may vary from a small question about God, to a major crisis of the soul type doubt. Don’t allow any of your doubts to go untreated. God is not afraid of your questions and doubts, He is welcoming and wants you to know Him and trust Him.

Are you doubting? Let’s talk!

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Road Trip: Freedom and Friendship



One of the most anticipated moments in a teenager’s life is when they get their driver’s license. They count down the months and days, excited to pass the exam and get their card. Why? You remember, right? It’s one of the biggest steps toward adulthood, and it carries with it a sense of freedom!

Once obtained, they can drive themselves to school, to practice, to work, to youth group and to their friend’s house. As they prove themselves responsible, parents give more and more freedom to their young drivers.

I remember when my parents let me go to Canada with two of my friends from church. Our plan was to drive up to the Canadian side of Niagara Falls, stay the night, and come back home. We listened to Five Iron Frenzy’s “O Canada” song on repeat the majority of the trip!

Freedom and friendship, those are the values that make a road trip amazing. Getting that license, the keys and the car open up so many possibilities. Having a friend with you makes it even better. (Of course, we aren’t talking about speed limits, gas prices, and insurance in this story.)

As we conclude our Road Trip through the Romans Road to Salvation, I want you to notice that we are not going to end at our final destination. But before we get into far, let’s review.

The Bible tells the story of the Gospel, the Good News of who God is, what He has done, and what He promises to do. Paul says this about the Gospel,

 16For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. 17For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith, as it is written, “The righteous shall live by faith.” Romans 1:16–17

We are on the Gospel Road Trip, and the first sign we see is Righteousness.

The Gospel is so powerful that it can transform any enemy who will believe in Jesus, into a friend of Jesus’. It’s an open invitation to all who will believe. The Gospel also reveals the righteousness of the Creator God.

Revealing who God is does two things: shows His holiness and shines a light on our depravity. The Gospel does this. The clearer picture of God we see, the more we will see our own sinfulness. In reality, before the good news gets good, it starts with the bad. Don’t you like to get the bad news first? Then the good news can make up for it.

Bad News: We are all sinners (Romans 3:23) and the penalty for our sin is death (Romans 6:23). The even worse news is that we cannot do anything about it. We are stuck.

The second road sign we see is Redemption.

The Righteous God is also a loving and merciful God. He saw our desperate position and moved toward us in His Son, Jesus Christ. Jesus came into the world, lived a perfect, sinless life in complete fulfillment of the Law. Then He showed His love for us in the most extravagant way: “but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

Jesus took our place on the cross and offers us a free gift of eternal life (Romans 6:23).

Then we arrived at a Fork in the Road.

At this point, you are forced to choose which way you will go. The options are to reject the first two signs and keep doing what you are doing and travel the wide way that leads to death. The second choice is to believe that Jesus rose from the dead and confess Him as Lord (Romans 10:9-10) and you will be on the road of life with Jesus.

The choice is yours. It comes down to this, do you believe that Jesus is who He says He is, that He has done what He said He would do, and that He will do what He promises to do? Will you follow Jesus on the road of life?

Freedom Road

Hearing the Gospel is like getting the keys (Romans 10:17). When you hear about the Righteousness of God and the Redemption He has to offer, and you believe it and confess it, you are on Freedom Road that leads to life. You are on the road following after Jesus. And tonight we are going to look at a few of the promises from God’s Word about what that means.

So, what makes a good road trip? Freedom and friendship!

Listen to this,

Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” Romans 5:1

What back to week 1, we learned that we are sinners and that means we are enemies with God. We learned that sin results in death. Here we see the Good News that when we have faith in Jesus we now have peace with God!

You catch that? You, who were once an enemy of Jesus, having placed your faith in Jesus, are now friends with Jesus!

Freedom and friendship! On this Road Trip of life, you can be on Freedom Road with Jesus by your side! But wait, there is more…


“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:1

What does it mean to stand condemned before God? It means judgment and shame. But in Christ Jesus, there is no more condemnation. No more shame. Listen, the Gospel means freedom, the Gospel means Jesus carried your burden, the Gospel means you don’t have to prove yourself. Jesus finished it. He paid it. He has set you free!

When you begin your faith journey with Jesus, you are made friends with Christ and you are set free from condemnation and the bondage to sin. Jesus promises to be with you along the road (Hebrews 13:5).

It’s important to know that Jesus never promises that the Road to Life on the Freedom Road will always be easy. As a matter of fact, He tells us there will be hard times of suffering and even persecution. But He won’t leave us alone, and we need to remember that He has already traveled the road before us.

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” Romans 8:18

The confidence that we have is this, that no matter how hard this life gets it can never compare to what God has in store for us upon arriving at our final destination. Right now, we are travelers on the Road of Life heading home, but one day we will be with Jesus in Heaven.

As we travel, the road will seem dark and difficult at times. At times, we will hit some bumps, get some bruises, and even forget what road we are on. These are the doubts we will struggle with, the heartaches we will face, the dry times we will go through. The temptations will come, but we must keep our eyes on the promises of Jesus:

37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:37–39

Now that you are on a Road Trip with Jesus on the Road to Life, you are safe and secure, for He will never leave you, and He will not let anything separate you from Him. Since He has traveled the road ahead of you, He knows what it takes to make it, He knows how to lead you to your greatest joy.

 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” John 10:10

If you find that you are stuck at the Fork in the Road, choose Jesus, He has provided the way to Life and He will lead you home.