Set a Goal to Be like Jesus

Jesus modeled for us what it means to be in an intimate relationship with the Father. He demonstrated how to love and care for others, even at the expense of his own life. Jesus, during his earthly ministry and his sending the apostles, demonstrated the importance of sharing the Good News with everyone. Jesus is the model, the pattern, and the example of Love.Care.Communicate. Therefore, in 2025, I want to challenge you to be more like Jesus. That is a tall task and can seem overwhelming, however, if we break it down into baby steps and strive for it each day, week, month, year, and lifetime, we will see growth and progress.

 

1 Peter 1:16

It is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.”

 

God’s demand to be holy as he is holy is an impossible task on our own. It is not something we will experience by flipping a switch, rather it is through an intentional decision to follow Christ daily. I am going to challenge you to think through some practical steps to apply each day as you seek to be more like Jesus. I find the pattern that Jesus set in his childhood, very little is known other than this verse, is a helpful guide for setting goals for the year.

 

Luke 2:52

And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man.

 

There are four areas that Jesus “increased” or “grew” in: wisdom, stature, favor with God, and favor with man. What I find so profound in these four areas is how these four areas demonstrate the humanity of Jesus. He took on flesh and needed to grow and mature, just like you and me. How are you planning on growing intellectually, physically, spiritually, and relationally this year?

 

 

I am going to ask you to set at least 4 goals for this coming year based on these areas. I want you to make these SMART goals. SMART is a goal-setting framework that stands for specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound. SMART goals are carefully planned out, executable, and trackable.

 

Jesus’ example is also summarized in his teachings in Mark 12:30:

And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.

 

As we will look at each of these four areas we will see how our growth and development is also a fulfillment of the great commandment Jesus gave his followers.

 

Wisdom/Intellect

Mark 12:30 “with all your mind”

 

God has gifted you with an amazing mind that is capable of unbelievable creativity, comprehension, and ingenuity if it is cultivated and developed. The question is “how are you cultivating your mind?” What are you doing to grow in wisdom? How are you being intentional to increase intellectually? One way we demonstrate our love for God is by utilizing our mind for his glory. This does mean changing the way we think about ourselves and the world around us to conform to his revealed word.

 

Romans 12:2

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

 

This is a command but it is also a promise. When you seek to renew your mind according to God’s Word, you will be able to test and discern what God’s will is. More and more you will see how God’s Word is informing your decisions and providing wisdom for each day. But you must be intentional about growing.

 

1 Peter 1:13

Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.

 

Any plan takes preparation and then must be executed. Peter says to prepare your mind for action, think clearly, and hope in Christ. How will you prepare you mind this year?

 

Setting a goal for growing intellectually can be simply being intentional about your current role. For instance, if you are a student, how can you prepare to make the most of your studies? Is there a subject that you need to improve on? Is there a grade you want to achieve?

 

If you are a worker, is there something you could learn to benefit your workplace? Is there some area of growth that would help you be better at your job?

 

Is there a book you want to read? Or how many books do you want to read this year? Is there a class you want to take?

 

God has given you a mind! Don’t waste it!

 

Speaking of wasting the mind, studies continue to come out showing how Social Media and smartphones are often hindering healthy development. Social Media, such as Instagram, Snap Chat, Facebook, have been linked to increased anxiety and depression levels. Setting goals for how you want to use Social Media can be beneficial to your growth in wisdom and intellect. Here are some positive steps you can take to navigate the online world in a healthier way (borrowed from PROFILETREE:

·      Curate Your Feed – follow inspiring accounts, unfollow negative influences, prioritize real life interaction.

·      Focus on the Real – be mindful of comparisons, recognize that social media is filled with others best moments, best pictures (and filters), and do not represent the real-life experiences. Celebrate your wins. Practice gratitude.

·      Disconnect to Reconnect – schedule breaks from social media to detox. Be present in the moment by putting your phone away during meals and conversations. Enjoy the moment without having to document everything. Prioritize sleep.

 

Social media is a tool; like any tool, it’s up to us to use it responsibly and prioritize our mental well-being. Let’s strive to create a more balanced online experience that empowers and uplifts us rather than leaving us feeling like losers in a never-ending game of comparison.

 

 

Stature/Physical

Mark 12:30 – “with all your strength”

 

The second area that Jesus increased in was “stature” or physically. I used to always joke about the reason I was not into running by quoting Proverbs 28:1 “The wicked flee when no one pursues.” However, that is completely out of context and not referring to physical exercise. Paul does encourage Timothy with “bodily training is of some value” (1 Timothy 4:8). We will revisit this verse in greater context when we talk about Spiritual growth. But Paul’s point was that the flesh is temporary and there are eternal goals that we should be pursuing, however there is benefit to taking care of our physical bodies.

 

God demonstrates this in his treatment of Elijah after the Mt. Carmel experience in 1 Kings 19. Elijah sees God have a great victory over the prophets of Baal, however, evil queen Jezebel threatens to kill Elijah. This frightens Elijah and he runs from Mt. Carmel in the north into the wilderness at the far south of Israel…that’s scared! God’s response to Elijah is for him to take a nap, drink some water, and eat some food. Take care of your body so you are ready to receive what God has for you.

 

Jim Elliot, an American Missionary, understood this while in college. He wrote a note to his mother, “I wrestle solely for the strength and co-ordination of muscle tone that the body receives while working out, with the ultimate end that of presenting a more useful body as a living sacrifice” (Through Gates of Splendor, pg. 16). How can I pursue physical health in preparation for God’s use? I am challenged by Jim’s quote.

 

Paul also used athletic training as a parable for the Christian life. 1 Corinthians 9:24–27 “Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.” Lessons learned from physical exercise and athletic pursuits can give us a picture of the struggle to grow as a Christian. Physical exercise, sports, and body image should not become a god to us, but we should view these activities in a healthy way and recognize that our body is a gift from God that we should care for.

 

What physical goal do you have for this year? How can you pursue health? Think of a SMART goal to set, such as, “I want to hike Hampton Hills Trail without stopping,” or “I would like to run a 5K by June,” or “I would like to be active 3 times a week.” It could also be improving on a personal performance or making a team. It can be avoiding sugar after 8pm. I would encourage you to think of some activity you can shoot for that will help you feel healthier, more alert, and have more energy for whatever God calls you to this year.

 

Personal story: last summer in Mexico I felt lightheaded after doing some manual labor. I realized I need to take better care of myself if I want to be useful. I have set a goal to be in the gym Mon, Wed, and Fri for strength training, and Tues, Thurs, and Sat for cardio. I set a specific amount of weight that I want to lose before going on the Mexico trip this year. My hope is that through discipline and consistency I can, as Jim Elliot said, “present a more useful body as a living sacrifice.”

 

The next area that Jesus grew in was “Favor with God.”

 

Favor with God/Spiritual

Mark 12:30 – “you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”

 

This area is really priority number one; however, it is list third in Luke’s account. The Bible is clear that we cannot earn God’s favor by doing good deeds because we are sinners (Rom. 3:23; Eph. 2:8-9). We do not want to understand “favor” as earning “grace” but, rather, as growing in intimacy and familiarity relationally. We could just say growing spiritually. Your relationship with God is the single most important thing about you. Every other aspect of life is temporary, but your relation to God is eternal. Your body will break down, your mind may fail, your friendships may dissolve, but Jesus remains the same yesterday, today, and forever (Heb 13:8). Jesus promises to never leave or forsake his followers (Heb 13:5-6). He is the friend that sticks closer than a brother (Prov 18:24).

 

The greatest goal you could set is to strengthen your relationship with Jesus this year! Jesus promises, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15). Pause for a second, hear that the correct way. If A, then B will follow. If A) you love Jesus, then B) you will keep his commandments. Wait, I still feel like you may be reading this from a guilt/shame perspective. Do you have an image of Jesus shaking his finger at you saying, “prove your love to me by keeping my commandments”? That is the normal posture people read this from. Like Jesus is putting a guilt trip on you. But that is not Jesus. Jesus is saying that your focus should be on loving him (Mark 12:30) not on a checklist of commandments. If you love Jesus with all your heart, the natural outflow of your life will be obedience. Obedience becomes the fruit of love, so focus on loving Jesus (John 15:5).

 

Just like any aspect of life, loving Jesus takes training and discipline. Let’s revisit Paul’s words to Timothy, remember we quoted the part about bodily training earlier… “Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths. Rather train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come” (1 Timothy 4:7–8). Do you see that? Train yourself for godliness by avoiding distractions and holding onto God’s promises. It’s been said that the only two things in this life that are eternal are the Word of God and the human souls. We should be growing in our knowledge of God’s Word and sharing the faith with others.

 

What are your spiritual goals this year? How do you want to deepen your relationship with God?

 

Will you commit to a Bible reading plan? Read through the Bible in a year? Read through the New Testament in a year?

 

Here are a few statistics to fuel your goals for Bible reading: Reading the Bible four or more times a week can have many benefits, including:

• Spiritual health: A healthier spiritual life, with a 60% lower chance of feeling spiritually stagnant 
• Sharing faith: A 228% higher chance of sharing faith with others 
• Memorizing scripture: A 407% higher chance of memorizing scripture 
• Reduced loneliness: A 30% lower chance of struggling with loneliness 
• Reduced pornography: A 59% lower chance of viewing pornography 
• Reduced anger: A 32% lower chance of experiencing anger issues 
• Reduced alcoholism: A 57% lower chance of experiencing alcoholism 
• Reduced emotional struggles: A reduced chance of feeling bitter, thinking destructively, feeling discouraged, and more 
• Increased peace and joy: Increased peace and joy in life 

 

Some say that the most important thing is to be in the Word daily, and that there's no minimum or maximum amount to read (from Faith Alone and Center for Bible Engagement).

 

Are you willing to commit to reading the Bible at least four times a week? Why or why not?

 

Who do you want to share your faith with this year? What missionary do you want to support? What missions trip to you want to attend? What Bible verses do you want to memorize? What sin do you need to repent of?

 

Growing in your relationship with Jesus this year begins with a desire to love Jesus more. It can seem overwhelming to try to do all of this, but start with one or two commitments and follow through with them. Add more next year, but be intentional in what you commit to.

 

The last area Luke mentions is that Jesus grew in favor “with man.”  

 

Favor with Man/Relational

Mark 12:30 – “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart”

 

Favor with man is a way of saying Jesus grew relationally. He developed friendships and learned how to interact with others in a positive and healthy way. From Jesus’ words in Mark 12:30, I highlighted the “heart” as the focus for growing relationally. The heart is the seat of desires, love, and affections. Learning to love others from a pure heart is essential to developing healthy relationships with others. I think it is appropriate that this goal comes last and builds upon the success of the previous goals. When you train yourself to think right, seek health, and love Jesus more, you become a healthier person. Developing friendships and relationships from a healthy position promotes strong and healthy friendships.

 

The Apostle Peter expresses this, “Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart” (1 Peter 1:22). When you see people the way God sees them, your desire should be to love them as God loves them and seek healthy connections. We are prone to sin and selfishness and often seek relationships that benefit our own sinful desires. The desire for power, prestige, or lust can become the reason we seek certain friendships or romantic interests. However, we are not to fall into those trappings but seek to put God first in all of our relationships.

 

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34–35). Jesus tells us that our love for fellow believers should be a picture of God’s love for us. As we love our fellow Christians well, the world will see there is something different and know that we belong to Jesus. This is what the Church should look like, a community that loves each other despite ethic, social, financial, or educational background. A new community that God has created. This is why you should commit to a local church and be consistent in your attendance.

 

Paul encourages us to a servant’s heart when it comes to relationships, “For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them” (1 Corinthians 9:19). Are you seeking relationships to serve yourself or asking how you can serve others? Jesus gave us the pattern from his own life, that he came to serve others (Mark 10:45).

 

 

What relationship/friendship do you need to develop or change? How are you growing in your people skills? Who do you need to serve? How can you serve others?

 

Think through your daily life and see what relationships need to be strengthened. What do you need to forgive? What do you need to seek forgiveness about? What conversation do you need to have?

 

Sometimes relational growth means beginning a new friendship or romantic interest. God designed us to be in relationships with others. Friendships are important, but our friends should be helping us be more like Christ. Romance and dating are important too, as God designed us as relational beings. In both friendships and romantic interests, it is important to start with a pure heart surrendered to God and develop a servants heart not a selfish heart. How do your friendships or romantic interests align with this? What conversations do you need to have?

 

When a friendship or a romantic relationship become destructive or toxic major changes need to happen. These can be difficult situations to navigate and you may need to talk with a counselor or pastor to determine the next steps. But there does come a time when we need to give up on a friendship or relationship because it is toxic and destructive. Please talk to me or to a counselor if you feel like this is an area that needs attention this year.

 

Jesus’ example to grow intellectually, physically, spiritually, and relationally is an excellent pattern for us to follow in our goal setting. I wrote a lot, but I don’t want you to feel you have to do everything on here. This post is to help inform you of the various types of goals and how to think through SMART goals in these categories. I would encourage you to think of 1 SMART goal for each of the four categories. Start there and see what God does in your life this year. There is always time to add more later.

 

I also want you to think through these goals in two more categories: public and private. Some goals are easy to tell others about and are public goals, i.e. “I want to read Bonhoffer’s biography this year.” However, some goals are private, such as a sin that needs to be confessed and repented of. Prepare the 4 goals mentioned above as public goals, but consider the private ones too. Accountability is important for keeping goals, so I would encourage you to find a trusted accountability partner to share your private goals (if any) with. If you do not have a trusted accountability partner, make that your relational goal for this year.

 

Thanks for reading and following along. I pray that this is helpful to you and encourages you toward whole life discipleship that Love’s God, Cares for others, and Communicates God’s message to the world.

 

Greetings and Charge - Rom 16:1-23

 

A few thoughts on Romans 16:1-16: Greetings

 

Letter writing in the first century was formal and dealt with business in the beginning. It would then conclude with a few personal notes and final greetings. Romans 16 is Paul’s personal notes and final greetings.

 

The church in Rome, upon finishing the letter, would just now be reading about Paul’s commendation of Phoebe. Most likely it was Phoebe who hand delivered the letter to the church in Rome. Paul speaks affectionately and highly of Phoebe, a servant (diakonia) of the church in Cenchreae, a town that Paul, Prisca, and Aquilla had traveled to on mission. Paul expects the church in Rome to receive Phoebe as they would have received and treated him.

 

18 times Paul gives the imperative to “greet” someone or a group of people. What do you think it means to greet someone? How is it different than saying “tell so and so I said hello”?

 

Saying hello is to acknowledge someone in a friendly way. To greet in the Christian sense is to communicate key aspects of theology, ministry, and leadership. Greetings recognizes individuals and their contributions to the mission of the church. This greeting highlights the inclusiveness of the Gospel that brings men, women, Jews, Gentiles, slaves, and free together equally in the family of God. This greeting shows how the Church transcends geography and is interconnected throughout different regions. These greetings also encourage the faithful workers in the churches, that you are not alone and God is working.

 

What are some things that stand out to you about Paul’s greetings in Romans 16? What catches your eye or causes you to question?

 

Here are a few that stand out to me:

·      Repetition: Greet – 18 times

·      Familiar: Priscilla and Aquila – Acts 18:1-3, 18, 24-26

·      Uniqueness: Epaenetus - First Convert in Asia, that’s really cool!

·      Repetition: Work – 5 times 2 Greek Words (strenuous/hard work & together/partnership work)

·      Repetition: Women – 9 times (4 women highlighted for their strenuous work in the ministry)

·      Uniqueness: Rufus – chosen in the Lord – Mark 15:21

·      Unfamiliar: Holy Kiss – a former student’s favorite verse while he was in youth group lol

 

Paul clearly loved the people who were in the church in Rome. This list points out those who have faithfully served alongside him and partnered with him for the spread of the Gospel throughout Rome. It is significant to see how endearing and empowering Paul is about women in ministry. Just a reminder that Christianity has always valued and respected women, their uniqueness, their importance, and their role in the ministry. Paul often gets mischaracterized by his statements in 1 Corinthians and 1 Timothy. There is a lot to learn about how we understand the Bible and apply it to our modern context. Some important things to follow is that we honor God first in our approach to Scripture, we remain humble in our posture, we consider the context of the passages in question, and we allow all of Scripture to speak to any passage we are approaching. Trying to figure out Paul perfectly is a difficult task, but we can learn from this passage that we are to love the family of Christ and serve one another for the glory of God. And we are to greet one another with a holy kiss, well at least a friendly handshake lol.

 

A few thoughts on Romans 16:17-20: Charge.

 

Be Watchful

1 Peter 5:8

Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

 

Working with students I am reminded every year of learning to drive. Talking with students as they are going through their in-cars and studying for the driver’s test cause those memories to come flooding back. Everything seems so strange and overwhelming at first. Hands on the wheels, look ahead, look beside you, check your mirrors, check your speed, give it gas, hit the brakes, and use your signals. It’s a lot to take in, but soon it becomes second nature through practice and repetition.

 

That is Paul’s call to us in the Christian faith. Be watchful. It can be overwhelming at first, but the more you do it the more natural it becomes. Danger is all around, just like driving. You need to pay attention, always. See on coming traffic, watch the flow of traffic, know and check your blind spots. Just like there are bad drivers on the road, there are bad teachers in the churches. They teach things that sound good but are not true to the Scriptures and true doctrines. The naïve will be deceived, but the wise will recognize the false teaching.

 

Paul commanded us Romans 12:2

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

 

James gives us some helpful ways to check our blind spots and recognize whether teachers and their teachings are from heaven or hell.

 

James 3:13–18

Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.

 

It’s a big deal because so many lack discernment and need wise Christians to help them avoid these traps. When you are obedient to God’s Word you will be a source of guidance to others.

 

Be Obedient

Faithful obedience to Jesus Christ will not go unnoticed. Obedience brings joy and refreshment to others. 3 John 4. Obedient faithful Christians seek to grow in wisdom of righteousness. They seek to be innocent to what is evil. Christians who understand the grace of Jesus and live obedient are not trying to sow their wild oats but are living in step with Jesus.

 

Be Hopeful

Hope is a confident expectation. Jesus won the victory on the cross, which Paul unpacked for us throughout the book of Romans. Now Paul reminds them that soon the decisive blow will be enacted upon Satan and peace will ultimately reign. Until then the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ is with us and will sustain us until he comes. Amen!

 

Practically speaking, when life’s circumstances seem overwhelming and our focus is on our struggles, it is hard to cling to this hope. However, if our focus is on God and his promises then this hope will shape the way we view our circumstances and struggles (Is. 26:3). When your circumstances is bigger than your view of God, you will be overwhelmed by them. However, when your view of God is bigger than your circumstances you will find strength and peace in the midst of the storm. God is bigger. God is present. God is victorious and so are you. Keep your eyes on Jesus.

A Reflection for Election Day - Jesus Won.

It’s on a day like today that your heart may be crying out the words similar to our Savior as He cried out from the cross “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matt. 27:46). The anxiety of the future that seems to hang in the balance in a time when our nation seems so polarized and divided can feel overwhelming. However, these words that Jesus cried out during his ultimate demonstration of love for sinful humanity (Rom. 5:8) come from the opening line of Psalm 22 (read the chapter). The psalmist wrote in his own anguish a prophetic word that was fulfilled in the passion of Jesus Christ. It is a stark reminder that, in the darkest of times, God has a plan and purpose beyond our comprehension. 

 

Why am I writing about Psalm 22 on the day of an election? It is easy to get caught up in the rhetoric of the day that the world hinges on the outcome of this election. You have your preferred candidate and the thought of losing can seem crippling. So much seems to be at stake, yet we need to remember who is writing history. In the midst of the prophecies of Psalm 22 is a reminder that “Kinship belongs to the LORD, and He rules over the nations” (Ps. 22:28). God is in control. 

 

This is a proclamation that resounds throughout the Scriptures and yet we can easily forget it. Consider Psalm 47:8, “God reigns over the nations; God sits on his holy throne.” And Psalm 103:19, “The LORD has established his throne in the heavens, and his kingdom rules over all.” The psalmist found great comfort in the midst of turmoil in the truth that God reigns over all. 

 

Daniel was taken into captivity by a foreign king, given a new name, and moved to a new land. Yet he said, “Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, to whom belong wisdom and might. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings…” (Daniel 2:20–21). Daniel saw the rise and fall of emperors and held fast to his belief that God is sovereign over all.

 

Psalm 22 is a lament, a crying out to God, and a prophecy of the coming Redeemer. Jesus Christ fulfilled the prophecies on the cross. He died and was buried, according to the Scriptures. But he rose again! He conquered death and sin (1 Cor. 15:1-8). This was done according to the plan of God that he set forth from before time began. “But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Cor. 15:57). Jesus won the victory! 

 

Jesus’ victory over death has given us the victory over sin. He invites us into newness of life and a transformed mind (Rom. 12:1-2). This world is not our home (Phil. 3:20), so why do we get so caught up with earthly things? 

 

When we focus on the risen LORD, we can have confidence in every circumstance in this life and a firm hope in the life to come. Paul states, “do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:6–7).

 

Let your hope be in Jesus, for he has won the victory! No presidential candidate can provide for you what Jesus has already accomplished. Do not put your hope in one party over the other party, put your hope in Jesus. “For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5). Take your cares, your worries, your anxieties, and your fears to him, for he cares for you (1 Pet. 5:7). Vote your conscience. Trust God with the results and live in the freedom that Jesus has given you. No matter who wins today, live your life knowing that Jesus won, that God is still on the throne, and He is continually working (Phil 1:6).

 

So, if your candidate wins or loses, love one another. Live at peace with your neighbor (Rom. 14:19). Seek to bless those around you. Confidently proclaim the truth: Jesus won!

 

“For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek” (Romans 1:16)

 

Psalm 22 opens with a soul crying out in anxious anguish. It speaks of the awful things that happened to our Savior. It declared the Kingship of the LORD over all the nations. And it leads us to one of the most comforting songs of all time: Psalm 23

 

            The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.

                        He makes me lie down in green pastures.

            He leads me beside still waters.

                        He restores my soul.

            He leads me in paths of righteousness

                        for his name’s sake.

           

            Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,

                        I will fear no evil,

            for you are with me;

                        your rod and your staff,

                        they comfort me.

           

You prepare a table before me

                        in the presence of my enemies;

            you anoint my head with oil;

                        my cup overflows.

            Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me

                        all the days of my life,

            and I shall dwell in the house of the LORD

                        forever.

 

To God be the Glory!

 

 

 

The Way of Jesus - Righteousness by faith - Romans 10:5-21

 

The Way of Salvation – Rom 10:5-13; John 14:6

 

Imagine with me for a moment that someone has offered you a full ride scholarship to college or offered to pay of your mortgage. However, you decide you do not want to receive this generous offer but will pay for it yourself. As long as you make your monthly payments over time you will have accomplished the same objective but on your own merit. However, if you miss one payment, just one payment, you lose everything.

 

This illustration pales in comparison to the reality of God’s offer in Jesus Christ for the salvation of our souls and the forgiveness of our sins. You and I can pay for our own college education. We can pay for our own house. But we cannot pay for our own sins. It’s a debt that is too large.

 

Paul says in Romans 10:5, “For Moses writes about the righteousness that is based on the law, that the person who does the commandments shall live by them.” Seems simple enough, but we have to remember what he has already taught throughout the book of Romans.

 

Romans 3:20

“For by works of the law no human being will be justified in his sight, since through the law comes knowledge of sin.”

 

It is in man’s inability to keep they law that he can understand that he is a sinner.

 

Romans 3:23

“for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”

 

And later, Paul writes in Galatians 3:23–24

“Now before faith came, we were held captive under the law, imprisoned until the coming faith would be revealed. So then, the law was our guardian until Christ came, in order that we might be justified by faith.”

 

Paul uses the imagery of a guardian or schoolmaster in reference to the law, that it teaches us that we need a Savior. The purpose of the Law was to point us to our need for God in our lives through faith.

 

But we have this human condition that wants to justify ourselves and earn our salvation. That is why all of the religions of the world, apart from Christianity, teach a works-based salvation. Man wants to earn his own way and naturally thinks that “as long as my good outweighs my bad, then I’ll be ok.” This is simply not true. Paul’s word in Romans 10:5 is a reminder that if you want to claim righteousness by the law then you have to keep the entirety of the law perfectly for the entirety of your life. Only Jesus did that.

 

But that is not the way of Christ. John 14:6

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

 

The way of Christ is a righteousness by faith. It is not an expedition into heaven to find a secret message and bring it back. It is not a journey into the worst of humanity to find the meaning of life. It is about knowing Jesus, who is risen from the dead, and is “near you, in your mouth and in your heart” (Rom. 10:8).

 

I remember a scene from the Dark Knight, where Bruce Wayne has to go on an impossible journey to find a rare blue flower and then traverse the rugged wilderness to accepted at the gates of the monastery for The League of Shadows. Paul, using Deut. 30, demonstrates that the Way of Jesus is not about elaborate works or pilgrimages. If that were the case, one could boast about finding the flower or climbing the mountain. Then we would find ourselves comparing how long it took and who arrived the fastest.

 

Ephesians 2:8–9

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

 

The Way of Jesus is a righteousness by faith. Romans 10:9-10 give us the most succinct and clear teaching of how salvation works. Belief in the heart and confession with the mouth. These are two sides to the same coin. Genuine, heartfelt belief in Jesus will be demonstrated through an outward expression. The significance of belief in the heart means at total commitment to the lordship and authority of the risen Son of God. It recognizes Jesus is God who came to die in the place of sinners, who conquered death by rising again, and who stands in victory over sin. Confessing with the mouth that Jesus is Lord is admitting to others that you are identifying with Jesus. It is an outward expression of an inward decision, much like believer’s baptism. Faith begins in the heart, is confessed with through the mouth, and demonstrated through an obedient life.

 

It is important that we understand the order. If we reverse it, obedience leads to confession and then belief, we have fallen into a works-based religion. Faith produces confession, which produces obedience. This is the way of salvation for all people, both Jew and Gentile alike. God is no respecter of persons. Anyone, and everyone, who calls on the Lord will be saved. Which means we have a message that needs to be spread to all people.

 

The Mission of Salvation – Rom 10:14-18; Matt 28:18-20

 

The mission of God is for all people to hear the Good News of Jesus Christ. But how will people hear unless we go? Paul askes a series of questions to provoke us into action as ambassadors of God carrying the message of Christ.

 

Matthew 28:18–20

And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

 

Jesus has sent us, his church, to be witnesses to all people. They need to hear because “faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ” (Rom. 10:17). John Stott encouraged reading these verses in reverse, which inspired me to write it out like this, “when those who are sent preach, they will hear. Having heard, they will believe. Having believed they call on him.” This is the power of the Gospel (Rom. 1:16) that we proclaim. People will be saved by the proclamation of the Good News if we are obedient in sharing it.

 

It is important to be reminded that we do not save anyone. God is the one who saves. We are called to share his message, and he transforms hearts! We do have to be perfect in our presentation or be a professional evangelist. We just need to be faithful witnesses of gospel truth.

 

The first time I had the opportunity to witness someone receive Christ after sharing the gospel, I could not believe that God used me to be his messenger. I was 19 years old and on a mission trip to Trinidad. I was scared to talk to people I did not know and signed up for a work trip. However, the rain kept us off the work site, so my leader said we were going house to house to tell people about Jesus. My anxiety levels spiked, and I was so afraid. However, we broke up in teams and started canvasing the neighborhoods. I chickened out a lot that day and allowed my teammates to take the lead.

 

However, as we approached one house, I heard myself say, “I will take this one.” I couldn’t believe I said it and my teammates were super encouraging. An 83-year-old Hindu lady answered the door. My hands were sweating, my mouth went dry, and I didn’t even know where to begin. Fortunately, we had been studying and marking the Roman’s Road to Salvation, a gospel presentation from a few verses in Romans. I asked her if we could share some verses from the Bible, and she said yes. So I took her to the first verse, Romans 3:23 and had her read it. Then I asked her what she thought it meant. After she answered, I turned to the next verse and asked her the same question. This was how I did it through the whole conversation. When we read Romans 10:13 “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” I asked her if she wanted to call on the Lord for salvation. She said yes!! So I told her, “well you should pray and tell Jesus what you want to do.” She bowed her head and said a sweet prayer of repentance and belief, and asked Jesus to save her. With tears in her eyes after the prayer, she asked us to come back later and tell her son.

 

Every time I am in this passage, I remember that encounter. I remember how God was faithful to his Word by saving that woman that day. I was forever transformed by the reality that God would use me to share his eternal word. It was not eloquent, it was not rehearsed, it was faithful. In my fear, I trusted and was obedient, and God was glorified that day.

 

We cannot rest on the past, we have to keep our eyes on Jesus and keep following him, lest we slip into spiritual apathy and self-reliance.

 

Hearing v Hearing: The Danger of Self-Reliance – Rom 10:18-21

 

Paul concludes this section with a sad reflection on how the Jewish people had the opportunity to hear God’s word, but the rejected it. This reminds me of a parable that Jesus taught about a great banquet.

 

Read Luke 14:16-24

 

In this parable, we see the host offer and invitation to several who found excuses to reject it. The host’s response was not to cancel the banquet, but to invite anyone and everyone that wanted to join, no matter their status. The poor and needy received the invite and came to the feast.

 

The self-reliant, self-righteous ones rejected the invite thinking they had everything they needed. They heard the invitation but were not compelled by it.

 

However, those who heard the invitation and responded received the blessing of being at the banquet. When Israel rejected Jesus as the Messiah, God chose to invite the Gentiles into his kingdom through Jesus Christ. They heard the invitation and received Christ through belief and confession. The Church was born.

 

Do not allow your past achievements, your present comforts, or you family history to keep you from hearing the word of Jesus. Listen to him and respond. You will find him faithful and never be ashamed.

The Gift of Grace - Eph 2:1-10

The school year is starting back up already. Some schools are already back in session, several schools start next week, and home school starts back soon. Last week we talked about priorities and making sure we begin with the BIG things and then find we will have time for the fun things too. It’s important that we see God as the most important thing and begin with a quiet time, prayer, and commitment to church in obedience to God’s Word. 

With the beginning of school often comes anxiety and excitement about the next year. Getting back into a routine of class, homework, and extracurriculars. It can be a lot and overwhelming at times. I thought revisiting the important teachings of God’s Amazing Grace would be a helpful encouragement as school begins. 

School is about learning and meriting. You go to class, you study hard, you take quizzes and tests, you write papers, and then you get a grade. Life is a lot like that too. You work a job, put in the hours, learn new disciplines, and receive a paycheck. Our entire understanding of life, work, school, family, sports, band, theater, and so on, is based on earning what we get. It’s our reality. 

Unfortunately, many think this same merit-based system is how we can earn our salvation. If I just do more good than bad, I will be fine, right? That’s what every world religion essentially teaches, except Christianity. The Bible says you cannot earn your way back to God and you can’t pay for your own sins. Paul describes our situation as being “dead in our trespasses and sins” (Eph 2:1-3). What does a corpse do? Nothing. It can’t because its dead. Spiritually, we were born into sin and therefore we were dead and incapable of doing anything good enough to earn salvation. 

The Good News of Jesus Christ is that Salvation is not based on merit! 

Read Ephesians 2:4-10.

Have you ever been given something you do not deserve? Of course, we all have at different times. Depending on the context will determine the impact of that gift. Receiving gifts at Christmas and birthdays are undeserved, but we tend to expect them and feel entitled to them. Receiving and unexpected and generous gift can be overwhelming and impactful. What is something underserved that you received? What was your response?

In Ephesians, we see that God initiates because of his love for us! He made the spiritually dead souls alive. He opened our blind eyes and our deaf ears. He secured our place in heaven with him one day. Not because of anything we have done or earned, but because of his GRACE. Grace is “unmerited favor,” or “unearned love.” It’s an unconditional love freely given by God to those who believe! It’s based on the finished work of Christ. Some have defined it God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense. 

We receive the grace of God through faith. What is faith? Faith is not a work, it’s a belief. It is trusting that Jesus is who he says he is, he has done what he said he would do, and he will do what he promises to do. Jesus is the Son of God, who died on the cross for our sins, was buried, and rose again. He offers forgiveness of sins and new life in the power of the Holy Spirit. He promises to return one day, put an end to sin and death, and make all things new as we live with him for eternity. 

By placing your faith in Jesus Christ, you are made alive with him and your new life begins now and lats forever. Salvation is not about what you have done but what Jesus has done. Jesus gets the glory for redeeming us and changing us. We receive the blessings of his finished work and continual work (Phil 1:6). 

But Jesus doesn’t just save us for heaven one day, he has plans for our here-and-now life. Read verse 10 again. God has a purpose, and a plan prepared for you to walk in. As you grow in the love of Christ you will begin walking like Christ and see what God is doing in and through you. As school begins, think of some goals to set to be Christ in your school, in your workplace, in you neighborhood, and in your home.

One more thought about the Amazing Grace of God, some maybe stressing over grades, status, or paychecks, but in Christ you are redeemed, you are secure, and you are chosen by God for a plan. In all the stresses of life, trusting Jesus makes your eternity secure and following Jesus is the way of abundant life (John 10:10). You can rest in his love knowing that he has brought you from death to life and holds your place with him for all of eternity!

The Way of the Shepherd - Psalm 23:5

 

We are continuing our series The Way of the Shepherd in Psalm 23. This beloved Psalm has been quoted in numerous contexts and settings, offering encouragement to believers for thousands of years. 

 

The problem with familiarity, however, is that we don’t often slow down and think through the depth of the psalm, and we pigeonhole the text to common expressions. For instance, considering Psalm 23 as only a funeral Psalm and missing out on the everyday life application of this song. 

 

With that, let’s turn to Psalm 23 and read it in its entirety, then we will focus on verse 5 today.

 

Read Psalm 23

 

Theology Provokes Worship

As we read through the text there are a couple of shifts David presents us. 1-3, David is describing God with the pronoun “He”. In these few phrases, David is recounting what he believes about God, which is what we call “theology.” Every believer is an amateur theologian, meaning we all think about God and talk about God. We have views of God which we should regularly recount and develop.

 

Then in verses 4-6 we see a shift from talking about God, to talking to God, this is called “worship.” We should never allow ourselves to talk about God’s glories without turning those into praise. This is a natural shift when our theology engages our hearts.  

 

It’s About Honor

One more thought from the context before digging into verse 5. In verse 3, we heard an astounding phrase, “for His name’s sake.” Why is God doing all this for us? For His name’s sake! It’s about His reputation, about His character. It is about who He is.

 

In our culture honor, character and integrity are virtues, but we are not an honor culture, at least not like what we see in the Jewish and Middle Eastern cultures. Your name, your family name and your house’s reputation were guarded with great care. 

 

We see this understanding of honor and “name’s sake” expressed in the Bedouin hospitality laws. The Bedouin culture has been around for over 4,500 years. Bedouins are a people who live in tents and continually move around the Judaean/Jordanian wilderness. 

 

In a Bedouin context, tales about hospitality and generosity became as important as battle stories. Just as important as being a strong and victorious in battle was being a welcoming and hospitable host. Consider,

 

1 Kings 8:41–43

41 “Likewise, when a foreigner, who is not of your people Israel, comes from a far country for your name’s sake 42 (for they shall hear of your great name and your mighty hand, and of your outstretched arm), when he comes and prays toward this house, 43 hear in heaven your dwelling place and do according to all for which the foreigner calls to you, in order that all the peoples of the earth may know your name and fear you, as do your people Israel, and that they may know that this house that I have built is called by your name. 

 

It is this honor code that God has used to describe Himself. His provision, protection, leading and hospitality communicate His character and draws people to Himself. This is why it is so important for us to be His “witnesses” to the world, that we proclaim the love and care we have experienced from our Father. 

 

It is this Bedouin backdrop that shapes how I’ve read through Psalm 23, and especially verse 5. Keep that in mind as we talk through our verse for this week.

 

Psalm 23:5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows

 

Many commentators and Study Bible contributors provide a significant change in Psalm 23 when we come to verse 5. They transport us from the shepherd with His sheep in the field, to the royal palace. They use the words like “banquet” and “feast” and conjure up images of a kingdom and festivals. 

 

Those images and ideas are not foreign to the Bible as feasts and celebrations with God are talked about numerous times. However, I don’t want to leave the wilderness, the shepherd/sheep context of Psalm 23 too quickly and miss what is revealed in this setting.

 

Will you walk through Psalm 23 with me, thinking of a Bedouin context for verse 5. 

 

Radical Hospitality

 

“You prepare a table before me…” 

In the Negev, the Judaean wilderness, where shepherds watch over their flocks, it is a hard land. It’s not the green pasture lands of Ohio. It’s rocky, difficult terrain, where the shepherds need to lead their sheep continually to new grasslands. This led to the nomadic lifestyle of the Bedouin. 

In the desert wilderness of Judea, the harsh environment was exhausting and would demand the life of one who does not know the wilderness. This is why the Bedouin’s developed the desert code of hospitality. In the desert, one is always welcomed to your tent. When a guest arrived, announced or unannounced, they were to be treated with honor and care. 

 

Look at Genesis 18:1–8

1 And the LORD appeared to him by the oaks of Mamre, as he sat at the door of his tent in the heat of the day. 2 He lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, three men were standing in front of him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them and bowed himself to the earth 3 and said, “O Lord, if I have found favor in your sight, do not pass by your servant. 4 Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree, 5 while I bring a morsel of bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on—since you have come to your servant.” So they said, “Do as you have said.” 6 And Abraham went quickly into the tent to Sarah and said, “Quick! Three seahs of fine flour! Knead it, and make cakes.” 7 And Abraham ran to the herd and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to a young man, who prepared it quickly. 8 Then he took curds and milk and the calf that he had prepared, and set it before them. And he stood by them under the tree while they ate. (ESV)

 

Provision

Here we see the Bedouin Hospitality on display. The generosity of Abraham is on display. The invitation, the water for washing, a place to rest, to a snack to eat and to be refreshed. Once that is taken care of, he rushed out to prepare a meal. 

 

If we read this from an American perspective, Abraham looks task driven, hasty and inconvenienced by the important visitors. But from a Bedouin’s view, this is a wonderful tale of hospitality, where Abraham is not rushing out of inconvenient embarrassment, but out of joy for having a guest in his tent. 

 

This is the image I have as I read this verse. We haven’t left the wilderness where the Shepherd watches over the sheep. Rather, we have a tent in the wilderness, where the host beckons us to his table.

 

I think David is caught up in this imagery as he is humbled by God preparing a meal, washing his feet, and giving his weary soul a place to rest. 

 

Psalm 23 does not just point us to the Bedouin hospitality but lays a pattern for the Good Shepherd’s hospitality.  In Matthew 11 Jesus offers an open invitation to come into his tent and receive rest for your soul (Matt. 11:28-29). Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst” (John 6:35). The provision that Jesus has made is more than a temporary meal, it is eternal life (John 10:10).

 

Not only is God’s radical hospitality on display at the table, but it also says a strange phrase:

 

“in the presence of my enemies…” 

 

Protection

We all have enemies, whether external or internal. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. Habitual sins, wayward thoughts, lies we believe, relationships that are broken, or even people who antagonize us. David definitely knew about having enemies.

 

Early on, David faced the Philistine giant, Goliath. Shortly thereafter he had to run from King Saul, who was jealous of him. David wander throughout the desert land evading enemies in his youth, and later in life when he fled from his own son’s conspiracy to take over his kingdom. 

David knew what it was like to be overwhelmed by this world. He did not take God’s hospitality for granted.

 

The Bedouin Hospitality laws not only demand that provisions are made, but that protection is offered. A leading scholar on the Bedouin life, Dr. Clinton Bailey, said this,

 

“A Bedouin host is obliged to protect anyone who enters his tent from outside threats…Preventing harm from befalling anyone who has entered a man’s tent, who has thereby become his guest, is reflected in the legal directive, “Defend a guest if he’s done good or done bad; keep a violator at bay or pay for his faults.” Defending a guest may mean stopping assailants from assaulting their intended victim by admonishing the assailants, especially if they are still outside the tent.”

 

Again, it was the character and honor of the host at stake, and therefore they would protect the guest, even if it put their own life in danger. As in this Bedouin legal directive, “You will die in front of the one you’re protecting.”

 

This understanding is transformative! God is not transporting us out of the shepherd’s fields and into a palace, He is meeting us where we are at to provide refreshment and protection for our souls. 

 

Not only will God stand before you and your enemies, He sent His Son to defeat your enemies. Jesus was willing to die in front of the one He is protecting, by taking our sin and shame to the cross, conquering it by overcoming death. Listen to His invitation:

 

Matthew 11:28

Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. (ESV)

 

Oh, weary soul, listen to the voice of our Savior calling out to you, come to His table and find the provision and protection you need. Experience the radical hospitality of our divine host today.

 

Compassionate Care

Not only does our Shepherd offer us radical hospitality, but he shows us compassion in the way He cares for us.

 

“Anoints my head with oil…”

 

It’s easy to read this and think of the anointing of kings, or the anointments of perfumed oils at festivals. But let’s stay in the shepherd’s context here. The Hebrew word for anoints in this passage is “to make healthy.” To anoint a king is a different word all together. 

 

The Bedouins would offer their guests oils to refresh their face and skin. This was particularly refreshing coming out of the sun and wind of the wilderness. 

 

A caring shepherd, even today, will anoint the sheep’s head with oils for several reasons. We all know what it is like to have dry and cracked skin, especially in the winter. A shepherd would rub oil to bring healing to the sheep’s cracked skin. 

Another reason as shepherd would put oil on a sheep’s head was to keep the flies away. There is a type of fly that will pester the sheep continually so they can’t rest. These flies will land on the sheep and try to lay their larva in the cracks of their skin or in their nose. This causes to the sheep pain, frustration, and can even lead to death.

 

Shepherds developed an oil mixture that keeps these flies away and protects the sheep. Sheep who are being attacked by these flies will rub their noses in the ground or on a bush, or sometimes even bang their head on a rock. An observant shepherd would see this and treat the sheep with this medicinal salve. 

 

Do you resonate with that sheep having flies attacking and being a painful nuisance to you? Allow the tender, compassionate Shepherd to apply the oil of healing to your pain. 

 

James 5:14

Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. (ESV)

 

We most often refer to this when it comes to physical sickness, but it is not limited to the body. The flies that are attacking can be physical sickness, or mental struggles. James is calling us to bring in spiritual leaders who can be the presence of the Good Shepherd to us. Whether it is real oil, or the presence of prayers and counselors that act as the oil of healing to our weary souls, we need to bring others into our pain. 

 

As I read Psalm 23, especially 4-6, I see David increasingly being astounded by what he is writing about God. This is a song of praise, of worship and wonder. As he ponders God’s protection, provision, and care, I can’t help but think he did recall the time he was called from the shepherds field and anointed with oil. 

 

Yes, it’s a different word, as I have said earlier, but it was a profound moment in David’s life. This radical hospitality, compassionate care and call from his God led David to Abundant Joy.

 

Abundant Joy

 

“my cup overflows.” 

 

The Bedouins would offer water, milk and wine to their guests. A generous host would ensure that their cup was never empty, thus, my cup overflows would mean that I have been greatly cared for by my host. 

 

Consider Psalm 104:15

“You (God) gave… wine to gladden the heart of man, oil to make his face shine and bread to strengthen man’s heart.” (ESV)

 

In this verse we see the Bedouin radical hospitality of our God on display to bring joy to our hearts. David is overwhelmed by God’s love and his care for him. An overflowing cup is a symbol of abundant joy. 

 

When you dwell on the presence, provision and protection of our Good Shepherd, how can you not be filled with joy?

 

When we come to Psalm 23, and dig deep, as we have, we have to allow the truths, the promises and the teaching to sink deeply into our hearts. We cannot just memorize the verses, recite the refrain, without letting it affect our heart and expect the abundant joy that David sings about. 

 

Oh Christian, Jesus is offering you abundant joy, are you living in it? Drink deeply from His provision, His care, His protection and know His love for you.

 

This is His promise to you, that when we come to Him, our lives will be the cup that overflows with the living waters, that His Spirit will indwell us, empower us, and help us overcome. 

 

Daily you can come to the table of our Lord and experience His provision, protection and care and be refreshed in your soul. However, we shouldn’t stop at just what we receive from Psalm 23:5 and the radical hospitality the Shepherd has for us. We should learn from the Good Shepherd and imitate him by becoming radical in our own hospitality towards others. Consider this article by Rosaria Butterfield on “Ordinary Hospitality” and consider how your hospitality could be used to bring others to the Good Shepherd.